Add this to your passion armory - Saffron's Square Paddle has an easy to hold the paddle, which provides a nice firm smack. The waved pattern combined with the handle strap allows the dom to control the scene, no matter how intense it gets. Pair with a set of to render your consenting sub helpless.
When playtime is over, give you sub a . Keep in mind to check on your sub during playtime to make sure they are enjoying it just as much as you are! Remind each other before playtime of the signals and safe words to use during the scene if you are uncomfortable with the activities.